I did a lot of high-school studies by myself out of interest. But 3 of the most practical and interesting books I read in are those about body-language and psychology. Not to see if people are lying or meaning the No if they are telling the Yes. A lot of entrepreneurs and high-police-officers using this daily, it can make your life easy! A small example about body language; “if someone watches his or her watch during a conversation, it could mean that they have another appointment are that they have to buy a new parking-ticket.” So what you can do is ask the person in question if they have time; most time they are stressing and don’t want to quit the conversation, mostly, people will not disappoint friends or people so they give time or a yes even if they won’t or can’t. But you’ll bite the bullet and the loyal person is you, they will really appreciate that!
It’s easy to see the signs and I see it around me, but I don’t use it personal, and it’s very difficult to. “People are not made to lie but everyone does, so they will show unlike behavior and it gives you changes to put them on the table!” But before you can use it, you have to screen people very good, even you can verify where they are looking with the eyes – above right – down right etc – to see where the eyes are going if they imagine something or digging in the brain. So you’ll see if someone is telling ‘real;ly’ old stories or actually telling blabla to impress. But anyway, be carefull and that’s also the reason I don’t like to use it, you have to screen and know the person very well and you can judge people to soon. How better your knowledge how easier it is to use it and the quicker you’ll see lie’s, or more important, ‘the more you can trust on what you see.’
Cool that I gave you some tips or new interesting about body-language, but we’re not a psychological website or blog. So let’s stay on track and formulate it in relationships!
To make it clear, people can’t and won’t lie to you, that’s why you can read it the most times, you’ll see what I mean at the 5 point I make below here. There is a lot more to know about it and you should be careful with judgement and actresses! If you will control it and use it secure, you shall read books and learn more about it.
See if she’s lying about cheating
1. She’s suddenly behaves differently
Lie detectors look for deviations from the norm, such as an increased heart rate, respiration and blood pressure. “When you inspect your loved one, you can also go looking for changes from its normal behavior,” “For example, if you ask where it was Friday night and she suddenly begins to scratch her nose, faster breathing or clearing her throat, then there might be something wrong,”
2. She looks too intently if she answers your questions
Everyone thinks that avoiding a glance suggests telling a lie. That’s why lying people sometimes looking convincing straight into your eyes, without blinking, if they answer your question. They also want to check whether you believe them or not.
3. They answer your question with a question
You: “Are you cheating?”. She: “Am I cheating?… . ‘Answer a question with a question or the same question gives you extra time to think about the true about the answer.
4. She turns the tables
Women are good at this. “When people are guilty of something, they tend to shift the accusations on another,” She can say for example that you bring your previous relationships in your new relationships, you’re paranoid, or that you are probably the one who is cheating. “When they feel pressure or feel caught herself, she turns only too happy the roles,”
5. She changes his story
“The truth is always clear and easy to remember. Lies on the other hand can change rapidly.” “If you notice changes in her story, it could mean something. Moreover, people who lie tend to stop extra (unnecessary) details in the story to make it more credible.”
The last point I like to pull out, lies are mostly always coming out, it owns up. Always tell the true, even if it’s hard or with consequences. The true has always a longer and better outcome. Because I know this, I can’t lie or I’m probably scared of doing it. I get more trust from people and always know that everything I said is believed. So if you like to have a stress-less life and live longer.. you know what to do!
Thanks for reading and good-luck and be careful with implementing, I hope I made you a more honest person!:)