It’s the 3th edition of ‘why’ you should have anal sex or don’t, and you know why? Know the days, anal sex became a trend and a ‘secret’ bedroom fantasy for a lot of boys & girls and men & women.
A little contradictory if i may say so but that’s exactly how anal sex can be. If you like to know about it you can read the first to blogs or just this small summary about it all.
It’s doesn’t have to say something about my own interest cause i wrote to do anal sex or don’t ‘ I’ve explained it all because it got a lot of interesting readers and it’s trending as…Her are the pros & the cons anal sex:
Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a “naughty girl.”
Anal sex isn’t just for the sexually daring anymore. It’s becoming more and more common in bedrooms around the world, but don’t let that fool you. Backdoor play is a different beast altogether. If you’re trying to convince your girlfriend to have anal sex — and yes, we’re going out on a limb here and assuming it’s your idea — you need to read; 7 Reasons Why She Wants Anal Sex With You and Why Girls Should Never Have Anal Sex
First off, she will either love it or hate it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, resulting in one of two feelings: pain or pleasure. And if it was pain, it’s likely she’s going to be hesitant about trying it again. You’ll have to be extra prepared if you’re going at it for a second time, and make sure you’re taking the right steps so that it can be enjoyable for her.
But if she’s open to it, with a little practice and a lot of patience, you’ll be able to enjoy a satisfying anal-sex life. Use a variety of different positions to make it more fun and comfortable for both of you. Once you know what women love and hate about anal sex, you are ready to rock her world.
It Can Feel Amazing
Women enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. It’s a totally different sensation than regular sex. It’s not her vagina, yet it’s inside her. In other words, it’s a completely alien feeling that she isn’t used to, which makes it intriguing. Meanwhile, the rectum will just suck up your penis like a vacuum. Play with her clitoris to really send her into the stratosphere, and consider buying her a sex toy to enhance the experience even further. In fact, it’s even possible for women to have orgasms from anal sex.
Anal Sex Is Naughty
Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a “naughty girl.” There’s a reason people love school girl uniforms and handcuffs: It’s forbidden and, therefore, all the more delicious and tempting. Anal sexis something you can do in secret and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your girl — which is part of the fun. Plus, there’s the bonding experience of doing something together for the first time, even if it’s just a first for one of you.
Anal sex can hurt like a mofo. The rectum is not built to have things go in; only out. The vagina stretches to let in a penis and give birth, but a rectum does not. Thus you can cause searing pain if you don’t prepare her properly. That means asking her using lube and going very slowly and don’t pound like a jackrabbit.
It Can Be Messy
Women put so much emphasis on making themselves look pretty and sweet-smelling for their men, so the merest glimmer of a possibility that you might see her explode all over herself is obviously devastating to her. It’s not exactly the look she’s going for, and it might be a major factor as to why she’s not into the idea.
For this reason she might decide to avoid anal sex altogether. But if she takes an anal douche ahead of time (or even just a thorough wash-up in the shower) and makes sure her bowels have been emptied an hour before, she’s almost certain to avoid any messy accidents.
There are also tips to avoid such issues, such as having her lie flat on her stomach after intercourse for 10 minutes or so. You can make it funny and get her a glass of wine or tea to sip while she waits for you to come out of the shower. This will help prevent possible leakage.