Women love surprises, but not all the nice gestures are welcome all the time. Don’t make it yourself – superfluous tricky – so pay special attention on the following things.
Women love jewelry. Why isn’t jewelry often in taste? “Men often think too easy. “They are gems” But its not that simple. Women have a very specific taste in jewelry terms, when you give her something very different from what she normally wears, it may come across as a sign of disinterest.
“When you buy jewelry, you must be sure that they will like it.” Some hints: she wears things with hearts? More gold or silver? Large or small things? Study;)
2. Solve her problems
You don’t have to fix her problems, except when it comes to a leaky faucet, a crooked painting or a spider in the house. “Men and women are very different in this field,” “A sad woman just want you to listen and appreciate her.”
Translation: She has a fight with her best friend or problems with colleagues at work and she would like to share kt. Even if she necessarily haven’t a solution. All you have to do is listen and be with her.
3. Too many gifts
A sweet small thing, or roses there – that’s ok. But a steady stream of gifts? Not a good idea!
There are a number of reasons why they don’t like this. For her it feels like masculine, worrisome behavior, like you want to have control over it. Especially when they earn enough to support themselves. Even if your intentions are good, they feel the pressure to do something back for you. No woman wants a relationship in which they constantly have the idea to step behind the run.
4. Surprise her with a sexy shower turn
A quicky is what she likea, but it’s not a good idea to surprise her with a sexy shower turn while she’s rushing in her hair mask and shaving her legs. “Physical space is an important aspect in relationships.”
It’s okay to be spontaneous and romantic, but you should understand that it’s not always time for it. No woman wants to be dressed up halfway dragged for a quickie.
5. Surprise messages
The messages that you send to ask where she is or when she comes home (even if it’s because you want to see her happy, or just because you care about her) it work on her nerves. Me either didn’t understand it 6 years back, “I was dumped, she told me why and my heart was broken so it won’t happen again and don’t let it happen.”
“Often you do this to show interest, to show that you care about her and have feelings for her,” “But it can come over like if you’re jealous, too much attention can feel intrusive. “